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Hey friend!

Is it still okay to say “Happy New Year”? It’s not January 1st, but it feels appropriate since this is my first newsletter of 2025.

In past years, my Januarys were all about big, bold goals. December was a whirlwind of vision boards, planners, and ambitious resolutions. I’d start the year buzzing with energy, certain this would be the year I accomplished it all. But by mid-January, that excitement often faded, replaced by overwhelm. Sound familiar?

This year, I’m taking a different approach. Instead of chasing “big splashy goals,” I’m focusing on the journey of becoming. It’s not about perfectly executing a plan or rushing toward an achievement. It’s about asking: Who do I want to become? and taking small, daily steps to embody that person.

Growth doesn’t happen in a single leap—it’s built step by step. And to take those steps, you need to meet yourself exactly where you are—not where you wish you were or think you should be.

Meeting yourself where you are isn’t about lowering your standards or giving up on big dreams. It’s about realizing you don’t have to be “ready” or “perfect” to start. This mindset shift is especially powerful for those of us who wrestle with perfectionism or the nagging feeling of being “behind.”

Why does this matter? Because goals aren’t just destinations. They’re part of a process. When you view them as steps in your journey of becoming, you see that real growth happens along the way.

Want to be more confident? Practice confidence daily—by speaking up, setting boundaries, or silencing self-doubt with an “I’ve got this.” Want to be more creative? Start small—write a paragraph, sketch for ten minutes, or let yourself play without judgment.

Some days, you’ll make great strides. Other days, you’ll stumble. That’s okay. Progress isn’t linear. What matters is showing up however you can, with grace and self-compassion.

This year, I’m leaning into the process—meeting myself with kindness, not criticism. Because when you honor where you are while working toward who you want to be, the journey itself becomes something worth celebrating.

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⚡️ One More Thing ⚡️

I’m excited to invite you to something new and fun: Weekly Hobby Hour!

This is your permission slip to put aside work, deadlines, and to-do lists for a little while and enjoy something for the pure joy of it. I know you don’t need my permission, but let’s be honest, sometimes it feels good to have someone else say, “Hey, it’s okay to play today.”

Each week, I’ll be live-streaming while I work on one of my hobbies, and I’d love for you to join me! Whether you’re knitting, painting, drawing, or working on your own creative project, this time is all about taking small steps toward something that brings you joy without the pressure of perfection.

When: Wednesdays at 8 pm Eastern

Where: Take Tiny Action YouTube Channel​

Bring your hobby, bring your curiosity, or bring your desire for a little creative play. It will be a relaxed, no-judgment zone where we can all take a breather and remember how fun creating is.

I can’t wait to see you there and have some fun together!

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Dream big and act boldly,

Monique

Ways to support this newsletter:

📚 Buy my book Don't Let Fear Have All The Fun​

🛍️ Visit the Take Tiny Action Shop​

☕️ Buy me a coffee​

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